Midlife Mothers: Pause. Reset. Reclaim.

You just snapped at your kid or someone you love, and now you are stuck in a cycle of shame and guilt.

PAUSE. Don't panic.

Maris Pasquale Doran bracing between the fridge and the sink, looking at the camera, her son blurred in motion behind her.

Meet Maris

Maris Pasquale Doran in a light blue shirt, resting her chin on her hand and smiling at the camera

I’m a licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist with 20 years of experience supporting people through complex life transitions. My work with emotional reactivity, grief, caregiving, and midlife change is both professional and deeply personal.

As a midlife mother, I’ve lived the collision of roles, most acutely during my father’s illness and death from pancreatic cancer when my nervous system rarely felt at rest.

My approach is steady, compassionate, and practical. This work isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about creating enough safety and steadiness to choose how you show up and to take a first step back toward yourself.

Featured in outlets including Real Simple, Scary Mommy, and Today's Ajenda with Dr. Jen Ashton. Speaker at venues including 92NY and the UBS Women's Wealth and Wellbeing Symposium. New York Times bestselling co-author of Piper Chen Sings. Trained at Columbia University, where I was also on the faculty.

Maris Pasquale Doran in a light blue shirt, resting her chin on her hand and smiling at the camera.